Welcome to How I Do It, the series in which we give you a seven-day sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger.
This week, we hear from Amy Ginger Hart, an OnlyFans creator and part-time pole dance teacher, who lives in Vermont, New England.
Amy describes an ‘oppressive’ Catholic upbringing, but says her online work has been ’empowering, healing, and incredibly transformative’.
The 34-year-old, who defines her sexuality as pansexual and demisexual, is engaged to her boyfriend of three years, Ren. The pair have sex between three and seven times a week.
She says: ‘I love the trust and closeness I share with Ren, and that translates into fiery sexual passion and the freedom to be playful during sex.
‘In my professional sex life as a content creator, I love the experience of sharing my pleasure with an audience and one-on-one in chatting with my fans.’
Amy spends her weeks doing solo masturbation videos with toys and a sex machine, and occasionally films sex with other women. She’s also sold consensual sex tapes with her male partners over the seven years she’s been a creator.
Without further ado, here’s how Amy got on this week…
The following sex diary is, as you might imagine, not safe for work.
Tuesday
Today is day four of a trip with friends to the beautiful Lake Winnipesaukee in New Hampshire. We’re staying in an incredible modern A-frame cabin in the woods. My partner and I are sleeping in the loft bedroom, overlooking the main living area of the cabin.
Something about the need to be quiet turns both of us on. Cuddling in the king-sized bed quickly turns into having sex twice before our friends wake up, in missionary and then prone.
He holds me tightly and pins me down, and I love when he finishes inside me because it feels primal and deeply intimate.
We’ve had amazing sex our entire relationship since we met on Bumble, and while he’s not an OnlyFans creator, I was open about my job in our first conversation. He’s very supportive of my work but it took more than a year of dating before we filmed a sex tape together for my OF.
Crossing that bridge has been great for our relationship and our sex life, and he doesn’t struggle with jealousy or insecurity around my job because he knew what he was signing up for.
I’m working during this trip, too, so after we get up I spend some time responding to messages, and I find a few minutes alone to fulfil
a £147 custom two-minute video request for a client who wanted to see me naked on all fours moving like I was riding a c***.
It’s pretty hot to make and while I don’t always get turned on doing custom videos, the movement felt really good on my body.
Then, we go out on the lake for a paddle boarding adventure which we capture for an OFTV episode. It’s so fun! I feel absolutely epic on my board with the wind in my hair in the middle of the huge lake.
In the evening we all make dinner together and watch Aang, Avatar the Last Airbender, which I end up loving!
Wednesday
Today is the last full day of the trip. We have sneaky sex again when we wake up, in Ren’s favourite position, which involves me lying on my side, while he kneels between my legs and leans on top of me.
He likes how this position lets him see my boobs and butt at the same time, and it’s a pretty intense angle of penetration. It’s really fun trying to keep the noise down with the intense sensation.
Then I meditate in the woods, followed by yoga on the deck. I spend some time chatting with fans while my friends make breakfast, and then in the afternoon we get out on the lake for some jet skiing.
After dinner and ice cream I head back to the cabin where I spend some more time chatting with fans. Contrary to what people believe, the chat isn’t always horny, it’s a lot more about what is going on in their lives, and I receive a fair number of poems.
People just want to feel seen, rather than get themselves off.
Later, we all have a hot tub, sauna, and cold plunge session, followed by a shower outside, and once it gets dark we build a fire and make s’mores.
When we go to bed, I’m feeling really hyper and it translates into some role play with my partner: he’s the doctor giving me ‘treatment’ so I can relax and go to sleep.
He starts by face-f**king me but reaches back to finger me at the same time, which completely shuts my brain off. Then, we do it prone and he strokes my clit while penetrating me until I come.
Throughout we exchange bits of dialogue like ‘oh doctor, what’s the prognosis’ and he tells me he will ‘probably have to put [me] on a daily regimen’.
It’s so fun, silly and hot. It’s great to laugh during sex. Having to whisper all of the dialogue makes it even more silly.
Thursday
We’re up early to hit the road so I can be back in time for an appointment with my plastic surgeon.
I think my audience thinks of me as very ‘natural’ but I have made some minor tweaks over the last few years, with botox and lip filler.
Honestly, as I’m ageing I look more and more like my dad and I don’t love it. I get a tiny bit of filler under my eyes to fight my genetics. After my appointment it’s nice to get home, see my cat Squirrel, and relax.
I have plenty of time to connect with my fans, too. I can’t have sex today because you aren’t supposed to raise your heart rate for a day or so after getting filler, so it’s fun to play virtually instead.
By the evening, my under eyes are so swollen I look completely insane and my partner and I are hysterically laughing about it. It feels a bit silly to go to such lengths in pursuit of physical beauty, but it has given me more confidence which is important when your career is centered around how you look.
People online have always been very divided about how I look. Some think I’m incredibly beautiful but others are genuinely confused about why anyone would find me attractive. But it goes to show the consumer demand for different types of bodies and looks and that you don’t have to be conventionally beautiful to be sexy.
Friday
I wake up early and get into a nice groove making content for my social media. My face looks pretty much normal again but I still need to physically take it easy.
After I do some art, harvest veggies from my garden, capturing snippets of my activities to share with my audience.
I get totally absorbed by a painting I’m working on and spent a couple hours on that. I get a couple more custom orders from fans so I spent some time discussing the specifics with them.
A custom request I get is actually from a guy who wants affirmations regarding better sleep and less anxiety, so not sexual at all.
While chatting with a fan, I end up getting extremely aroused by how flirty and fun it is and it turns into a whole sexting session and we both come, which is amazing. I love when that happens.
In the evening I do an hour-long meditation session which is wonderful. I really need those times of just being present. Then I make dinner with the veggies from my garden.
Saturday
Ren and I decide to book a day out on Lake Champlain and shoot the experience for OFTV and Youtube. It’s a gorgeous day on the lake and there’s almost no one else out on the water.
We have a beautiful view of the Adirondack Mountains while we jet ski and we even use a drone to get some cool shots.
While I get sunscreen in my eyes (ouch) I manage to not get sunburned and hopefully viewers will forgive me for looking bloodshot in some parts of the video.
Afterwards we get some truffle fries at a local spot, and when we get home I spend time playing with Squirrel and her favorite piece of string.
At bedtime we have some gentle missionary sex, which I love. I like being able to embrace each other and feel his weight on me, as well as being able to gaze into his eyes and kiss.
It feels really intimate and sensual, and never feels like an assignment or a task, which is how it can feel if I’m doing a custom order. Feeling obligated to orgasm or penetrate myself is not hot to me, so I like to follow my own inspiration.
Sunday
Today is a nice relaxing day chatting with fans and fulfilling a custom order. This one is of me cleaning my house naked so my fan could imagine I’m his wife waiting for him to get home from work. Such a cute custom order! I love it.
In the afternoon I do some dancing on my home pole, which is lovely. It’s been about a week since I last danced so it feels good to return to it. I prep a little for the classes I’ll be teaching this week at my studio.
In the evening my partner and I try to watch TV but ended up giving each other oral on the couch instead. One of my biggest kinks is being face-f***ed, especially if he finishes really deep in my throat. We’ve been doing that a lot lately (insert sweating emoji).
It’s amazing how much my face, mouth, and throat have become erogenous zones. To be honest when he cums like that I feel like I had an orgasm too, it’s wild.
When we head to bed we have sex missionary and doggy style, and we both came again.
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Monday
Again we have sex before getting out of bed. We are on a roll after how naughty we were last night. We do missionary again, I’ll never ever get tired of it.
Then I catch up with fans and fulfill another custom order, this one is a c**k-rate where I say nice things about his c**k for four minutes. It’s quite detailed.
I charge £295 and talk about the shape, size, colour and texture of it, and what I imagine I’d enjoy about it if we were physically together.
Then, I focus on making social media content including pole dancing and yoga, which is some of my favourite content to make. In the afternoon, I head to one of my favourite river spots and catch up with my younger sibling who runs the dance studio with me.
We have a lot to talk about after not seeing each other for around ten days, and we share the juicy parts of our relationships and then talk about our upcoming creative projects for the dance studio.
In the evening I make dinner and hang out on my bed chatting with fans and cuddling with Squirrel.
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