Welcome to How I Do It, the series in which we give you a seven-day sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger.
This week, we hear from Amelia Quest, a 26-year-old pansexual OnlyFans creator who lives in Florida.
She’s currently single and abstaining from partnered sex after she says men made her feel like ‘a fetish’ due to her 36O breasts.
Currently, Amelia says she masturbates every day, explaining: ‘My personal relationship with sex is complicated but ever-evolving.
‘I’ve had a lot of incredibly fun and fulfilling sexual experiences, but I have also been sexually assaulted in the past, so I don’t take going on dates lightly.
‘I might be abstaining but that doesn’t mean I don’t have an active sex life. I have myself, my rose toy and a job in adult content creations that gives me plenty of opportunities to explore different sides of my sexuality.’
Amelia described her OnlyFans work is fulfilling, but at some point she would like to find a partner who accepts her and her job.
‘I’d like to find a partner who genuinely sees me for me and wants to
experience sex together in a safe and fulfilling way, with very few boundaries,’ she explains.
‘I’ve always really enjoyed being incredibly submissive and having my partner take full control over me, so finding someone I trust enough to explore that with would be exciting.’
Without further ado, here’s how Amelia got on this week…
The following sex diary is, as you might imagine, not safe for work.
Monday
I wake up with the sun and head out to my balcony, where I check all my social media accounts and schedule anything that needs to go live.
I also move over to OnlyFans to see if any of my followers are awake.
Before I properly get ready for the day, I come back inside and go into my bedroom to get myself off. It gives me a little dopamine high that really helps me push through the morning.
I’ve discovered that my orgasms are much stronger when my core is engaged, so I love doing a morning wall sit with my favorite rose toy. It only takes about a minute and a half, but the orgasm is so strong.
Once my day has officially started, I film content for social media before moving on to my OnlyFans customs. I only make topless content.
That’s part of why I love OF so much: I get to decide my own boundaries around what I will and won’t do, and everyone has to respect them.
Today, I film a boob-play video and three c**k ratings. Sometimes the penises are really big, and sometimes they’re really small. Most of the time, when they’re small, I have to be mean to them about it.
Doing this has helped me tap into a much more dominant side of myself that I didn’t really know I had. In my heart and soul I don’t enjoy degrading men, I want them to feel confident and happy in themselves, but my job is not to instil that, it’s to give them what they want.
Once all the filming is done, it’s time for lunch. I pick my favorite Asian spot and finally leave the apartment.
Tuesday
Tuesday starts like most of my other days: sun, social media and another wall-sit orgasm. It feels like a mixture of a good workout and an explosion of quick release.
The more it feels like a workout the bigger the dopamine hit goes to my brain.
At 10am, I have a meeting with my team to discuss everything that needs to be edited for the week. We decide which days will be shoot days and what the themes of the content will be.
Later in the week, we will all be working together at a rental home I’ve booked to shoot several different kinds of content for social media. After the call, it becomes my mission to find the right rental home and share all the information with everyone so we can be on the same page.
Finding the right place is more complicated than simply finding a pretty house. I need different areas where we can film, good lighting and, most importantly, a pool. What homeowners don’t know won’t hurt them.
Once that is handled, I go to the grocery store and pick up ingredients to make myself dinner.
Not every day in my sex life is actually sexy. Sometimes it’s mostly meetings, rental listings and groceries.
Wednesday
Wednesday begins with my usual routine: checking my socials, getting myself off with a wall-sit orgasm and hopping in the shower.
I actually discovered the wall-sit orgasm by accident at the gym, while my personal trainer had me do one. It’s such a fundamental part of my routine now because it’s an easy way to distract me from what’s going on inside so that I can push myself to be the best I can for the rest of my day.
Then I spend about an hour filming social media content. After that, I start packing the mountain of clothes and props that I’ll need at the rental
home.
Before I load everything into the car, though, I have a few custom tit-f**k videos to film for OnlyFans. For these, I suction a dildo to the counter and use fake cum for the final shot.
It looks realistic on camera but is much easier to clean up afterward, which is important when you’re the performer, director and cleanup crew all at once.
Before I start filming, I do one of my famous wall sits to get my body into a sexual mindset for the content. Once the customs are finished, I jump back into the shower for a quick rinse, load up the car, grab some lunch and head to the rental home.
The rest of my day is spent checking out the house, deciding which content will be filmed in each area and putting away all the stuff I brought with me. Then, you guessed it, I hang out on OnlyFans with my subscribers until I inevitably fall asleep.
Thursday
Now that I’ve woken up bright and early somewhere that is not my own home, my schedule is thrown for a little bit of a loop. Today is all about filming lots and lots of social media content.
My assistant and two videographers are coming to help me, but since it’s
only 8am, I need to be productive on my own first.
One of my biggest types of content at the moment is my daily pool-dipping videos, with around 50 million views. This is where I wear bikini bottoms and a giant t-shirt with nothing underneath, dip my body up to my neck in the water never breaking eye contact, and for a split second when I come out of the water everyone gets a view of me in a wet t-shirt.
I own around 100 2XL T-shirts, and every time I rent a space, I make sure it has a pool.
My goal is to dip in every single shirt at least once. I spend the first two hours of the morning putting on a T-shirt, stepping into the pool,
dipping myself, climbing back out, removing the wet shirt, putting on a dry one and repeating the whole process until I’m just about ready to lose my mind.
Afterward, I check all my social media accounts and make sure everything is good to go before the team arrives. Then we start filming funny skits.
This rental home has a pirate ship in the backyard, so naturally, we film pirate content and funny skits inspired by Step Brothers. We also film some interview-style videos.
Being a content creator means seeing a pirate ship in someone’s backyard and immediately thinking, “Great, that’s work sorted.”
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Friday
I start Friday with another round of pool-dipping videos before everyone arrives. I normally manage somewhere between 25 and 40 shirts before the repetition makes me feel like I’m going insane.
Today’s shoot begins later than usual because we need a couple of hours of darkness. The theme is gothic Halloween, so everything is black, dramatic and a perfect opportunity to let my inner emo child run free.
dominant Mummy Amelia is on full display. One of my favorite shots is simply me staring intensely into the fire pit as though I’m
watching every one of my problems burn inside it. It makes excellent content.
Once we finish shooting, the mood completely changes. We all sit around the fire, roast marshmallows and laugh about the day. I love that contrast: one minute I’m dressed in black and looking like I’m plotting someone’s demise; the next, I’m eating a marshmallow with my team.
After everyone leaves, can you guess what happens? I check in with OnlyFans one last time before going to bed.
Saturday
I have to check out of the rental home at 10am. One of my favorite things about rental homes is that they normally have a washer and dryer, so I make sure all my T-shirts have been washed and dried before I leave.
Once everything is packed, I spend my final hour at the house checking my social media accounts and making sure everything is running properly. I also check OnlyFans to confirm that all my messages have been answered and that everyone is having a good start to their weekend.
I go straight home, unpack everything and attempt to get my apartment back to normal. Once I’m settled, I begin scheduling everything we filmed, along with whatever my editors have already managed to send back to me.
Saturdays are calmer workdays. I respond to messages, schedule content and make sure everything is ready for the coming week. Since Saturday is also a day off for so many other people, I get to spend a lot of it chatting with my subscribers.
I’ve been trying to take myself on at least one adventure every week, so I use part of the afternoon to plan something fun for Sunday.
In the evening, I do arts and crafts. Recently, I’ve become really into bedazzling lighters, so I work on those for a few hours before winding down and going to bed.
Sunday
On Sunday, I finally return to my usual morning routine. I sit on my balcony, check everything online and then go back inside for my wall-sitmasturbation session before getting ready for today’s adventure.
I decide to do my favorite thing: drive an hour-and-a-half to my favorite beach and spend more than six hours in the ocean searching for shark teeth. I’ve found a few thousand shark teeth over the years, and I love using them in my art projects.
I film the adventure so I can edit it into social media content later, but I’ve found a good balance between knowing when to record and allowing myself to enjoy the majority of the experience. I never want every fun thing I do to feel entirely like work.
On my way home, I find an Asian restaurant I’ve never tried before, sit down for a meal and film a food review. I get home at around 5pm, which gives me enough time to unpack everything and de-sand my body before starting an evening livestream on OnlyFans.
I love live-streaming because it gives me a fun way to interact with the subscribers who care about me the most. Sometimes I play sexy games, which can be as simple as me having a bowl of paper commands for me to do and every time someone tips $50 I pull out a piece of paper and do whatever is written.
So, sometimes I make the stream really sexual for everyone, but I’ve had a long week, so tonight we’re just going to hang out.
I work on an art project while I’m live, and then I spend another hour talking to everybody. I let them ask me questions, engage with them and tell them how much they mean to me.
I am single, but these men are part of my life every day. They care about me a lot, and I care about them too. It’s a different kind of parasocial relationship from anything I’ve experienced before, and I am genuinely grateful for all of them.
Still, once the livestream ends and the camera switches off, I’m reminded that I’m alone. It isn’t the most comforting thought, and it is one I deal with very often.
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